"See me comin to town with my soul
Straight down out of the world with my fingers
Holding onto the devil I know
All my troubles'll hang on your trigger
Take your eyes and your mind from the road
Shoot your mouth off but look where you're aiming
Don't forget to pick up what you sow
Talking trash to the garbage around you..." (Beck)

It worries my kids sometimes that I listen to progressive rock; that I could pick Beck out of a lineup, or that I know the lyrics to some of the racier NIN songs. But music - music is more than just entertainment for me. It's a running soundtrack to my life. I love my iPod but I don't have NEARLY enough music on it, mostly because, other than the Audible book tracks, everything on my U2 iPod is, well, U2. I need to get past that, I know, because U2 isn't the only band I like. There should be ample room for my Sting collection, and my Jackson Browne, and even my Def Leppard if I so desire. Most of the time I don't need my iPod, though. I can hear every note, every phrase, of every song I love in my head anytime I want to. A strange talent for someone with no musical training whatsoever, and a frustrating one as well. If only I could pick up the guitar or the violin or sit down at the piano and just start playing what I hear in my head...

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